Hey beautiful soul,
You're tired of setting goals and not accomplishing them, I know.
You feel the pressure of expectation and it limits you from being your best self, I can empathize.
You feel like you checked off all the boxes in your life to do list and now feel stuck, I remember.
You're tired of surviving, and you're ready to thrive...I'm ready for you!
It's time to unlearn the habits of survival holding you back from your truest potential.
I'm confident that I can help!
LET'S MEET YOUR TRUEST SELF.
WAIT, WHO ARE YOU?
I'm glad you asked!
My name is Destiny Denise Saldivar, and all I want to do is to empower you to reclaim your seat as the Head Badass In Charge (HBIC) of your destiny (see what I did there). In simpler words, allow me to help you live your best life!
I hold a New York State license in Social Work, Bachelor's degree in Psychology from SUNY New Paltz, and Master's Degree in Social Work from Columbia University. I leverage my therapeutic approach alongside personal experience throughout my sessions to help you reframe the faulty thought patterns contributing to your frustrations.
I'm taking everything life has taught me, and combining it with everything I've studied about Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Motivational Interviewing to deliver personalized 1:1 virtual support that empowers you to catapult yourself to the next level. I am a huge proponent of the pen-to-paper connection and leverage the benefits to encourage my clients to increase their self-awareness.
INCLUDED IN YOUR SUBSCRIPTION
Initial Coaching Onboarding + Intake
After your clarity consult, you'll review our client contact and have an opportunity to ask any clarifying questions. At this time, you'll also submit your payment and receive the coaching intake assessment to be completed 24 hours before your first video session.
Monthly 20-25 minute video conference
Throughout the duration of your subscription, every coaching cycle (30 days) begins with a 20-25 minute video session where we check in on your progress, talk through self-identified obstacles, and identify behavioral patterns that are inhibiting or contributing to your success. During this time we will set a personal and professional goal!
Monthly 15 minute phone call follow up
Mid-coaching cycle, we will schedule a 15-minute accountability follow-up where together, through a series of questions, we assess your progress towards the month's goal. Your honesty helps us determine if we need to change the goal, break the goal down further, or simply re-route! We are a team whose only priority is your success. Cool right?
Monthly Progress Report
At the end of every coaching cycle, I'll send you a progress report that outlines your initial goal, include any changes to the goal, and provide recommendations for the upcoming month. These are yours to keep and can serve as a visual representation of your hard work!
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Welcome to the family!
Ready to invest?
I'm so glad to hear that you are ready to put yourself first in this way.
Perhaps investing in yourself today means limiting the Ubers you take this month or cooking the veggies in your fridge rather than eating out as often. How are you willing to transform to meet your best self?
I want to be sure that these services are accessible for everyone because I believe we all can use a little push. Click the button below to access my full-service menu and schedule your free consultation when you're ready!
So you have some questions...
I, of course, have answers! Read through the FAQ section below, and if your question still hasn't been answered please shoot me an email at email@example.com.
Are you a psychologist or therapist?
I graduated with my Bachelor's Degree in Psychology from SUNY New Paltz, Master's Degree in Social Work from Columbia University, and obtained my New York State license in Social Work in 2016. While my educational background is extensive in those areas, I do not have a private practice, and because of that do not accept insurance. While I identify as a therapist, in this relationship, I am your coach!
WHAT MAKES YOU QUALIFIED TO COACH ME?
I have studied Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for 7 years and Motivational Interviewing for 5 years. Throughout my career, I have provided counseling services to elementary school students, high school students, and undergraduate students. You can check out my LinkedIn profile here. Now as a budding entrepreneur I am expanding my services to include adults. None of the books I've read or classes I've taken prepared me for my own transformative moments, which is the reason I decided I wanted to offer a coaching experience. All I wanted, through the darkest most confusing moments in my life, was to speak to someone that understood me. Coupled with my therapeutic approach, this is the lens through which I view our partnership.
When it comes to these things, you have to trust your gut. If you read my story here and feel like I can help you become the person of your dreams, then let's work! If you are not convinced, that's okay! Perhaps now is not the best time, or I am not the best person to help you through your journey. Sending love, anyway.
WHAT CAN I TALK TO YOU ABOUT?
Anything! My main goal is to listen for your short-term goals and ask you questions that help you uncover the instances of fear, doubt, and disbelief that are inhibiting you from realizing those desires. Once we are clear on what you want to work on, my job is to help you develop healthy coping mechanisms that support your new habit of thriving - moving away from the survival mentality. Some examples include: 1) Getting a new job 2) Moving out 3) Finding a passion 4) Coping through a life change 5) Organizing your finances 6) Applying and enrolling in school.
TELL ME MORE ABOUT THE SUBSCRIPTION
We will always begin your month with a video conference call to check in on your progress while setting a specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and timely goal. After we've identified your progress, we'll dig deeper into your life and uncover behavioral patterns that can clue us into the reason for your success, or lack thereof. Throughout the session, I either work to help you reclaim your power and overcome your fears, or identify and amplify your joys. I enjoy using Tarot Cards to anchor our conversation as they help guide my intuition. However, if you are uncomfortable with Tarot Cards, we can hold off on them. Your trust is my priority.
I serve as an objective spectator of your life that usually is able to notice patterns from the outside that you might have a harder time identifying on the inside. Towards the middle of your month, we'll schedule a phone follow-up that checks in on your progress! This is also a time for me as your coach to provide gentle accountability on what you said you would do! At the end of your month, I'll send you a progress report that outlines the goal you set, along with the steps you've taken and the tasks that lie ahead. Throughout our time together, I provide you with tools, worksheets, and individualized affirmations that help you past our time together. I am invested in your self-sufficiency, instead of being someone else you depend on. I'd rather help you be that someone for yourself.
WHAT KINDS OF CLIENTS DO YOU WORK WITH?
I want to work with the person that is fed up with themselves. I'm looking for clients that are tired of being tired, frustrated that they can't meet their goals, but are willing to work on themselves harder than they ever have in their entire life. If this seems too dramatic for you, then we are not ready to meet as of yet.
Overall I work with clients who are honest with themselves, open to vulnerability, not afraid of accountability, and are willing to do what it takes to thrive. No games or gimmicks, just straight up personal development.
DO YOU OFFER PAYMENT PLANS?
Since our coaching subscriptions are super affordable, we do not offer payment plans at this time.
WHAT IF IT DOESN'T WORK?
Did you know that our brains are hardwired to start with the negative? It's a coping mechanism we developed during pre-historic times to keep us safe from wild animals. I wrote a blog post on it, check it out here.
To answer your question, there are a variety of reasons it may not work:
1. We are not right for one another.
After your first session with me, if you decide that we are not a good fit for one another, I am happy to give you a pro-rated refund on your package. I understand that I am not for everyone, and that's okay. I just want you to get the guidance you are looking for.
2. You're not putting in the work.
Yep, I said it. You have to be willing to be honest with yourself. I am not here to give you answers or provide you with a step-by-step solution to fix your life problems. What I am here to do is hold your hand through your own journey, and help you mend the scars that surface as you are on your way towards self-actualization.
Before our first session, you will sign a contract that commits you to finish your sessions and providing full payment. All payments are non-refundable.